Hi, I can fully understand your situation, although I only have 2 maids (Considered lucky?) It is right that the problem tends to start after the loan are finished, and both my maids have "boyfriend" issue. Actually I think the reason is there is a lot of "Maid-hunter" in Punggol. Those bangladesh can even get to know my maid within split seconds. All the time my maid only go out with us, the only time that she is not with us is when she went to wash handkerchief for my babies in Punggol Plaza food court. So I think we as maid-owner should help one another by watching out on this kind of things. So to stop this kind of problems together. But luckily you don't need one anymore, I am still suffering...