According to my last mens, I was supposed to be 5 wks pregnant but I kept telling her that I do not have regular period, so the calculation may not be accurate. She said the size of my sac for the baby was big enough and she should be able to detect my baby with her ultra sound machine - thus concluded so confidently that it was a bad pregnancy and arranged for me to abort. I asked should I wait, she said I could but I may bleed naturally and profusely, so arranged surgery is better for the mother. I also had to ask her whether should I wait and get a second ultra sound. Only then did she agree and arranged for another ultra sound - 1 day before the surgery. I asked about her package but she said let's not talk about that now. The scary thing is that she was so certain of this bad pregnancy and I almost took her for her word. Maybe she had many of such experiences and thus, appeared very cold and unfeeling towards me. I got a second opinion in KK, my friend's gynae actually waited for me when her shift was over and attended to me personally. She found my baby hiding in a corner with strong heartbeat! That was 30hrs after the visit to Dr Chen. I called her clinic back to cancel my appointment and told her assistant about my experience but the Dr herself did not get back to me at all. Maybe her assistant did not inform her - that's why I thought I should let her know personally. She may be very good, caring etc but my only experience with her was traumatising.
Well, my daughter is growing fine and she's such a joy! That's what really matters.
Sorry to hear your bad experiences.... Hope things is well for you and family.... do take good care.
