sometimes, no choice, people are thinking career, power and money first in their life.
some people are thinking about family first, however, the career is only so..so....
some people are aiming for power, career can be advance, but look at the family, children
I believe, a leadership starts from the family. If you are the head of the house, need to take care of the wife and 2 children. You see these made up 3 different characters. Even in the family can't manage, I wonder how to manage 20-100 people? very very contradicting.
I see some powerful women like Raffles hotel / UOB chairman or something like that. They are all divorcees. No wonder can spent so much time to gain political power.