Aisey, I don't think I'm a superwomen at all. My mum IL angrily said "I'm the one who work the hardest and even have to cook after I reaches home." Why? Cause for the first day when I start work, I carry my baby home, not using a baby pram, and hence not able to carry the tingkat tupperware home myself so asked my hubby go to babysitter's house to take, she not happyla, say her son so pitiful this that after work have to go there to pick up the tupperware.
HELLO!! I'm the one MOST pitiful, having to help settle his pitiful's son's credit cards debts, taking care of my baby and have to take care of my hubby, the "big kid" some more.
Please hor, even if she cooks, its those soup-based meal, nothing as fancy as mine, fried or cook vegetables, which requires more effort. Everything just throw into the water and boil can liao. Where got difficult? But since she doesn't like me to cook at home, I also don't want to mess up her kitchen, so can only eat outside 24 hrs a day, 365 days a year.
As to why I don't ask them to send to my house is I worry it might get stolen, or someone having some funny idea of adding something into the dishes. You'll never know.
Haiz, just hope that I can settle down, then faster move out.
Err .. I also want to correct a thing. It takes me 1 hr 15 mins to settle everything that I've mentioned earlier, not 2 hrs hehe cos I include the time I spend with my "wawa" (that's what I called my baby, cos when baby cries, they goes "wa..wa .." so I thought this name should be nice, tho he hardly cries!
Normally, I slept at 10 pm, after being jobless for more than a year. Worry not being able to cope, tired, etc but miraculously, I am able to cope, human do have a strong adaptability.
Hehe start from this week, I slept at 11 pm!! Very tired indeed, cause my work requires me high energy plus walking around to settle staff's welfare matters.
Uknowho, try to settle everything yourself. Thankfully, I'm very independent and I know everything myself, from how to bath baby from day 1 until now (I've never bath a baby before!) to how to wash, cook etc. So, I got the "privilege" of not being demanded to do this or that or being disturbed by my mum IL to follow everything she says cause she'll tend to think that you know nothing.
Here, I hope to remind all parents to train your children to help out with chores. Serious. It's good for them, make them to be independent, don't wait until one day you're sick then only ask them to help you, some children doesn't even bother you even though they claimed they love you! Chores? They are simply lazy!
Take a look at my hubby and his sister (same age as me) and I truly shake head. Even want to eat the corn also ask mum to peel the skin and steam it for them.
I scold my hubby upside down, now he's a bit bit more independent.
And also wash clothes. Now I think she realised that training children is good when she observed that I know everything. Now then ask her precious daughter to wash her office clothes herself. If not, everyday after work, she'll wash for her.
